Two blogs. One storm. One survival map.
convicDID is the raw archive—built from lived experience, system fluency, and tactical love. It recounts the full arc: before the diagnosis, before the name for what we were surviving. It’s the story of suspicion, exposure, rupture, repair, and the long road to recognition. The betrayals, the breakthroughs, the parts I got wrong, and the ones I’d do again.
Storm Tracking is the protocol lab—real scenarios and conversations with my husband, broken down and interpreted from the outside. Nothing here is confirmed, but the stories are true. Each post is a survival timestamp: what happened, what I missed, and what I now understand—often far too late.
Together, they form a survival map for partners, systems, and advocates who refuse erasure and demand recognition.
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Learning to Bend When the Storm Hits
I caught the cycle before it caught us—Cycle-breaking over person-breaking, every single time. There’s a brutal truth about loving someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder that rarely gets said out loud: As the supporter, you’re often the anchor.The steady hand.The calm voice.The one who “gets it.”The only person who can track patterns, read parts, and keep…
