Two blogs. One storm. One survival map.
convicDID is the raw archive—built from lived experience, system fluency, and tactical love. It recounts the full arc: before the diagnosis, before the name for what we were surviving. It’s the story of suspicion, exposure, rupture, repair, and the long road to recognition. The betrayals, the breakthroughs, the parts I got wrong, and the ones I’d do again.
Storm Tracking is the protocol lab—real scenarios and conversations with my husband, broken down and interpreted from the outside. Nothing here is confirmed, but the stories are true. Each post is a survival timestamp: what happened, what I missed, and what I now understand—often far too late.
Together, they form a survival map for partners, systems, and advocates who refuse erasure and demand recognition.
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The Weight of guilt
A personal reflection on support, boundaries, and the cost of being human. There’s a particular kind of guilt that comes from trying to live in two worlds — the one where your partner needs you to be their anchor, and the one where you still have to keep your own life together. I’m learning that…
